Conclusion

 Ultimatly, throughout the tapestry a pattern was formed for both themes. For each different part of chosen love, it seemd to show that when love comes opon you it is up to you do choose wether or not you will accept love into your life and make something out of it. Being able to choose who you will love makes a world of difference compared to forced love as it brings such a powerful emotion into our lives. As for forced love, it was clearly started throughout all parts that love is not an emotion you can force upon a person.  You may ask why cant you force someone to love another? Well the answer to that is simple because you cannot force one to feel a certain way about a person, feelings do not work that way. People fall in love because it is who they choose to be with and open their heart to. It is true that, without love we as humans are nothing. Loves brings peace, happiness, enjoyment, and many other things to our world. Everyone deserves to experience love with the one they choose to accept into their life and not be forced into an emotion you cannot control. Love can make one crazy, it can make one expereince feelings they have never felt before, love can last forever.

step 7 novel

The Twlight series:
The twilight series relates to my theme of chosen love. In twilight Bella Swan see's Edward Cullen differently then anyone eles. When Bella spends more time with Edwrd she realizes he is a vampire. This didn't change how Bella felt about Edward, she still wanted to be with him even though she was putting herself in a possibly dangerous situation.Once your in love with someone , nothing about them should change how you feel, you acceptt them for good and for bad. And that's just what Bella did.
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1099212/plotsummary


The Hunger Games:
...During Hunger Games Peta, a tribute from district 12 reveals to the audience that he loves Katniss, the other tribute from district tweleve. When the games start Katniss and Peta go their sperate ways and fight for theirselves. Once Peta injures his self, Katniss saves him. Katniss knows why she had to save Peta, because she must make the audience love her, she must pretend to love Peta Mellark. I find that this reprsents forced love because  Katniss forced herself to pretend to love Peta so she can please the audience and survive the games. Many people might try and force theirselves to love someone because they want things such as fame,money,etc. But does forcing your self to love someone make you happy? Is being famous or having money more important then love? It is up to you to choose to be with someone for the right reasons, be cause you truly love them...


http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1392170/plotsummary

step 6 MEDIA

http://pinterest.com/pin/222301996/    
http://weheartit.com/entry/12254220



http://www.elyricsworld.com/i_choose_you_lyrics_mario.html

This song exspresses  feelings of chosen love. With love many things can be made possible. When you choose to love someone everything seems worth while.
"For I saw us dancing through sunshine and rain
And I saw us laughing through joy and through pain
And I saw time passing but we did not change
And I still saw us together at the end of every day"
"I choose you"
This part of the song  prooves that love is the emotion that keeps people together through the happy, sad, problematic, and special times in our lives.



https://rmunatunagb.wikispaces.com/Forced+Marriage


...This image shows two people being forced to be with eachother. Love cannot be pulled out of anywhere, how can one love someone who they do not want to spend their life with? The image states "Forced. You have the right to choose"(Model) . Every person in this entire world has the right to choose who they love because spending your life with one you love is what will make life worthwhile. Live your life happily with the one you choose to love, not who your forced to live with...

step 5 poems

A Heart Of Stone
Author: Beckie M.                                                #1

Once I had a heart of stone
For it had surley lost its home
It could not love or wanted too
But in my life, then came you. 

The stones began to fall away
As happiness began to fill my day
A feeling so sweet and special too
Could this be love, I pray is true.

My heart now sings a song of love
For I know that it was  sent from above
My heart is warm, there is no cold
Hard no more, but with wings of gold.

It soars above the sky so high
Sometimes I think of why and cry
My heart now sings a loving song
For the part of me I thought was gone.

The gift that you have given me
Is so important, can't you see
No more sadness or being alone
For now my heart returns to home.

http://www.1lovepoems.com/pa28.shtml




"Once I had a heart of stone for it had surley lost its home It could not love or wanted too but in my life, then came you. "  I found that this section of the poem represented my theme the best because even though his heart "Couldn't love" when love came his way he choose to accept it. Love can be very deep emotion that can be so powerful you may not be able to control your feelings if it comes your way, but you can choose to accept it or ignore it.  You may not be able to choose who you love but you can choose to do something about it and create a beautiful materpeice from it.




Poem #2

    Blood on Their Hands
Do not reveal your abject fear
Forced marriage cannot be the way
Stand and fight, stand solid here

Protect the rights you hold most dear
Your life is short, your marriage long
Do not reveal your abject fear

If need be, run away and hide
Demand that only you decide
Stand and fight, stand solid here

Your parents may think they know best
But never put it to the test
Do not reveal your abject fear

Speak out to those who bully you
But get some help along the way
Stand and fight, stand solid here

I do not want to see you killed
And honour is no virtue
Do not reveal your abject fear
Stand and fight, stand solid here

©  Diana Grant     12th February 2008


http://www.squidoo.com/forced-marriage-poem-and-comment

This poem i found was a wonderful example of forced love. There are religions, and different customs in the world where a childs parents will force them to marry the partner they want their child to be with wether they like it or not. This poem clearly startes that you shall not be forced into anything you don't want to do, its your life , protect it, for you do not live forever. Marriage of two people could possibly and hopefully last more then half of ones lifetime and why waste more then half of your life with a person you do not love? Make the best of your life and choose your story.

short stories step 4

"Appointment with love" (in class short story)
Appointment with love represents chosen love.  It represents my theme because it shows the true meaning of loving someone. Lieutenant Blandford didn't know what Miss Meynell looked like but he still wrote to her every chance he got and let his self fall in love with her. He made the decsion to open his self up to her and the fact that he didn't know what she looked like didn't stop him.

http://www.leighb.com/lovebook.htm


http://www.classicshorts.com/stories/force.html

Summary of "The use of force"
The use of force is about a young girl who is sick. The young girls parents calls a doctor to make a diagnosis  their child. When the doctor arrives she young girl doesn't say a word. The doctor asks her to open her mouth to check for dipetheria but she refuses. With the prmission of the parents the doctor forces a spoon down her throat. The young girl was no longer able to hid what she hading from her parents causing her to be angry and furious.

   Although this story isn't quite about love, it has elements that represent forced love. For example, in the story the young girl shows emotions that any victom of being forced to love someone might feel. The young girl was hiding her sickness from her parents, alot of the time in forced love they will feel as if they must hid how they really feel because there is "no way out". Also once the parents agree for the doctor to force the spoon down her throat it causes much hectic for the young girl. In a forced relationship it is possible to have no choice is doing something because of what you may wanna hold in or because there is simply just nothing to do about it. Once the action is forced upon the little girl she is in no way happy and just fusterated with everyone. When forced to love someone you are fusterated because it isn't what you want it is just what you feel you have to do.

step 2

http://faculty-staff.ou.edu/M/Erika.D.Mitchell-Deluca-1/HephaestusandAphrodite.html

The myth Hephaestus and Aphrodite symbolizes chosen love and forced love. In the myth, hephaestus was given a gift by his parents to marry Aphrodite the most beautiful godess. Altough Hephaestus chose to sccept having Aphrodite as his wife and love her Aphrodite did not love him back.  Aphrodite agreeded to marry Hepaestus because she wanted to please the gods but did not stay faithful to Hepaetus throughout the marraige. This myth shows chosen love because Hepeastus accspeted his parents offer to marry Aphrodite and chose to allow himself to love her. This theme also shows chosen love because Aphrodite chose to be unfaithful and open her heart to love for other men during their marriage. This theme represents forced love because although Aphrodite agreed to the marriage she did not love Hephaesatus she only married him to continue her life with the gods. Aphrodite was forced to love a man she did not truly want to be with and because she was unhappy she did not stay true to the marriage and had affairs with other men.

Step 3 quotes

picture:

http://mmdelrosario.hubpages.com/hub/quotations_about_love

• The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved. -Victor Hugo

http://mmdelrosario.hubpages.com/hub/quotations_about_love

 

 

 

 

 

“Love is not a force between a mind and a body, but a force between two hearts. Your mind and eyes will never tell you when you feel true love, for only your heart can recieve the true love that another heart sends directly to it.”

http://thinkexist.com/quotation/love_is_not_a_force_between_a_mind_and_a_body-but/251960.html 

“Love cannot be forced, love cannot be coaxed and teased. It comes out of heaven, unasked and unsought.” ― Pearl S. Buck

http://www.goodreads.com/quotes/show/92491

 I found that this quote amazingly described forced love. Love is such a powerful emotion that you cannot force it. Love comes "unasked and unsought"(Buck), you cannot control who you love and do not love you can only control to chose to accept love or ignore it. Being forcd to love one whom you do not love may bring unhappiness and confusion. Allow yourself fall with the one who is meant for you.

Love is as much of an object as an obsession, everybody wants it, everybody seeks it, but few ever achieve it, those who do will cherish it, be lost in it, and among all, never... never forget it....

-Curtis Judalet

I chose this quote to represent the theme of chosen love. I thought this quote best described chosen love because once you chose to accept love into your life it is something that will change your life forever. You chose the path for your life and once choosing love, it is something you will cherish, and never forget.

http://www.latestngreatest.net/teenlovequotes.htm

You never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back.- Barbara De Angelis
http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/choicechoosing/

- I chose this quote to reresent chosen love. I thought that this quote representred chosen love because by allowing your heart to

step one

What is love? Love is seen and felt in different ways throughout the world.  We see love, hear about love, and some of us are lucky enough to feel love. We cannot live with it. Love is a feeling that people fail to describe but there is one thing we all should know, you cannot be forced to love we simply must fall.